To be honest, I find this book possibly my most challenging one to understand. There are tons of unnecessary subplots, story is hard to follow, and too many unanswered necessities. I had to reread quite a lot to understand a chapter. The only thing that I can explain right now is Willie and Vi's relationship.
As a daughter of an over-securing mother, I can understand where Willie is going; Vi as well. The 'typical mother' will obviously make you study to be smarter - say, going to Stanford; rather than an archaeology career where the 'typical mother' thinks you won't bother making a living out of yourself. If I were Willie, I'd probably make a fool out of myself and say that I'm still going to Stanford, and then be ashamed of myself and start regretting later. But really, I think that Vi is going overboard.
This book somewhat reminds me of Life as We Knew It, a book that connects the main character with her mother frequently. Both describe happiness, sadness, and anger between both supporting and main characters.
If I were Vi in this situation, I would try to give Willie some more precaution, and take things more gently. People often make big mistakes, and there are times when anger doesn't solve it.
Being a mother doesn't seem easy.
I agree, being a mother definitely does not sound easy. But it's worth it, isn't it? I mean, going through so much pain at child birth *awkward air* and then it's so hard to raise a baby... But it's worth it, right? I mean, bringing a little teeny human into the world makes you feel happy though, right? Like you've helped the world or something? I mean, I have no experience *EVEN MORE AWKWARD...* But, that's how things are. I think it could make you feel like you've done something good and like it just helps the world a bit... I'm repeating myself a lot, aren't I? Ah ha ha...
ReplyDeleteUh...personally, I don't think it helps the WORLD necessarily, but it does make you happy to have your own baby.
ReplyDeleteI say this because:
1. Our world is being overpopulated as we speak.
2. You went through that pain for a reason...right?
3. MAYBE your baby will grow up to help society, but it all depends on your genes, I assume.